Sink into God's arms... Relax.

Saturday, December 16, 2006

:: Men from Mars, Women from Venus ::

"Just follow me. Trust me." Then we get lost.

What a girl needs isn't just someone who has everything under control, or rather CLAIMS to have everything under control so as to reassure her. She needs someone who INCLUDES her in his life and lets her into his struggles and problems.

I know it is a sweeping statement to say that all guys have big and overt egos, are self-centred and do things for themselves. Well, yes, girls' egos may be equally big, but covert. Yes we are selfless when facing the ones we love yet selfish when protecting our loved ones.

I'm not saying that girls are super good or better than guys, cos both gals and guys have their flaws. I'm just upset that girls are coined "more emotional" and guys "more rational". Is that an excuse for guys to be insensitive?

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Agree?

Yea, only when I walk around in his shoes can I fully empathise from his perspective. But his shoe size doesn't fit me! My shoe size doesnt fit him either! So how? Each of us wear one side of each other's shoe?

Haha I sound like I'm condemning all guys cos of a bad experience with one guy or something. Relax. I'm not. Not all guys are like that. Haha most guys are though =P

Oh well. It's impossible to change the other person and one shouldnt't hope to either. Either you change yourself and accept the other person, or you just give up altogether. In a marriage, the latter is impossible, since a choice has been made, and commitment given. One has just gotta continue praying for the other and holding onto God's grace.

Although the picture of guys that I've painted above seems so black, there definitely are times when they are super sweet and manage to melt girls' hearts. But is that all? Sweetness and all that "I'm giving you the best" crap. Don't actions speak louder than words? Why do their words seem more convincing then than their actions?!

Haha I'm probably gonna get alota rebuttals from all you guys after my seemingly feministic post =P Haha bring it on =)

~ Dawn reporting from Japan

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About Me

Dawn Ku
God's Child
23rd October 1986
Methodist Girls' School
Anglo-Chinese Junior College
National University of Singapore
Barker Road Methodist Church

Adores

God the Father
Jesus Christ the Son
Daddy
Mummy
Meizi
All my Sec 3s

Loathes

Satan and his lackeys
Sin

Wants

All whom I know to be saved
To Know God Deeper
To Shine for the Lord
To Walk my Talk